tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post4280379222306950697..comments2013-05-25T04:53:24.441+10:00Comments on Sex and Chocolate Cake: Breathing It InJust a Tastehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08456019169116732600noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-55556305454404830012010-08-03T10:53:53.873+10:002010-08-03T10:53:53.873+10:00Anonymous, I know JaT and Mr JaT. I don't have...Anonymous, I know JaT and Mr JaT. I don't have this kind of relationship with my husband, and I found this concept rather confronting, too. I still don't totally understand, but it's not my job to either judge or understand. :)<br /><br />I will say, though, that JaT was definitely in a very bad place last year, and she's right that apathy is poison to a relationship. She was so apathetic that I suspected the relationship was doomed. :( And I understand that Mr JaT wasn't happy, either.<br /><br />I can only be supportive of anything which makes both of them happier, and contributes to the health of their relationship, because they're very special people. :) I believe she's far more concerned about his feelings now than she was before embarking on this adventure.Katenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-21063279596235248262010-08-01T11:00:06.545+10:002010-08-01T11:00:06.545+10:00I am curious as to why people would anonymously le...I am curious as to why people would anonymously leave comments challenging your choices. This blog solely exists as a vehicle in which you explore your desire for a D/s relationship outside the bounds of your marriage. I find it well written, thoughtful and it gives me incredible insight into the way you think and feel. I enjoy it immensely and I thank you for being bold enough to share the journey.Reecenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-56319414802362045462010-07-31T08:07:23.606+10:002010-07-31T08:07:23.606+10:00Hi Hun!!!
I think its wonderful for you that you...Hi Hun!!! <br /><br />I think its wonderful for you that your husband loves you and gives you his blessing to go spend time with your Sir. I love that he helps care for you in the aftermath of the scene that you had with your Sir. It shows just how much he loves you and it also shows how much character he has. I think that if he didn't want you to have this then he wouldn't help you with the creams and such for your bruises. Perhaps he does enjoy the caring for you part. Maybe some time you could invite him to see what these sessions are like. Maybe if he sees the scene itself and what it does for you he would understand better. <br /><br />*hugs*<br />Humbly His, <br />HeavenVanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10428455603038429702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-75670039080500152532010-07-24T18:07:28.828+10:002010-07-24T18:07:28.828+10:00Come on kids! People are free here to express the...Come on kids! People are free here to express their concerns. PLUS it has inspired me to really delve into that and the post is awesome....it is coming....Carliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17891143389443417203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-79070408234327826322010-07-24T17:27:09.672+10:002010-07-24T17:27:09.672+10:00Ummm, firstly it is her blog, so I would be guessi...Ummm, firstly it is her blog, so I would be guessing that there would be a lot of "I"s in it as she is merely sharing her end of her experience. Second, from what I can gather, her husband is aware of all of this, reads her blog and supports her and has made a choice to enter this lifestyle willingly with her. <br /><br />I guess it all depends on the constrictions and parameters as individuals we place on our relationships. I don't see why, if both her and her husband are happy, it should bother you.<br /><br />Oh, and I am always on the look out for sentences that start with "I am open minded but...."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-10886196275712165272010-07-24T08:19:28.558+10:002010-07-24T08:19:28.558+10:00I appreciate your concern and have shared some of ...I appreciate your concern and have shared some of them myself - very interesting. I am half way through my response but in the meantime you can check out Sadie's blog and news articles on the topic here <br /><br />http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/<br /><br />It just so happens her latest post exactly answers you question!Carliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17891143389443417203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-62122438068013470032010-07-24T04:38:20.163+10:002010-07-24T04:38:20.163+10:00This comment has been removed by the author.Carliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17891143389443417203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-4087266387606909042010-07-23T18:07:56.274+10:002010-07-23T18:07:56.274+10:00What about what it does for his self confidence?
...What about what it does for his self confidence?<br /><br />All I seen in your reply was a heap of 'I'. It's selfish on your part, and honestly I am open minded but i find your respect for your family and husband sickening.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-90611697172813353312010-07-23T17:30:27.786+10:002010-07-23T17:30:27.786+10:00Thank you for your comment. Perhaps I will. I wo...Thank you for your comment. Perhaps I will. I would have also lived to regret not doing this though. I know that right now our relationship is better, more alive and happier than it has ever been...hrm I think, perhaps that I will write up a post in response to this! Food for thought!Carliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17891143389443417203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4985176736628506421.post-50374740229927401362010-07-22T20:19:47.063+10:002010-07-22T20:19:47.063+10:00I read your blog, listen to your speak of your lov...I read your blog, listen to your speak of your love for your husband and honestly I can't see it. I highly think you will live to regret this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com